Hi all, I'm brand new to this community and to this concept. I am very glad I found it. I am a 31 year old male, been married for about 8 years. I have struggled with performance anxiety pretty much our entire marriage. My wife is the only one I have been with, and I started having the anxiety even starting on our honeymoon (we didn’t have sex until after we were married). My struggles have been off and on, sometimes I am able to be with her without a whole lot of anxiety, other times I become panicky and totally overwhelmed and it becomes very stressful and discouraging.