All Male Cuddle Parties arrive in NYC!

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Hi y'all,


This, to me, is a development of staggering implications. Finally men are finding ways to be gentle, loving, playful, respectful and caring with each other using the medium of touch. They are also doing it openly. This takes a huge load off intimate sexual relationships. I hope to see more of this kind of gathering in the future. Wish I lived in NYC! Smile

I mentioned this as a dream of mine long ago on this site. I'm so happy to see that it's now a reality!




Local Men Only Cuddle Party

Hi Marnia,

One of my groups actually ended up being a men only Cuddle Party but that was entirely accidental. I'm very leery of openly and publicly creating a men only cuddle party here. This town is homophobic enough without me adding fuel to that fire! I might do it under the radar with guys who show an interest, but that's a work in progress. Right now I'm working on finding someone who is interested enough in the Cuddle Party approach to healing in this community to agree to a time to do it together and help me attract others (I had a no-show event recently and man did that sting! I'm not going to expose myself to that again!).




I've experienced that many times. The anger/fear I can go through around this dynamic can and has been intense. My body suffers very obviously at times like these. It can, however, take some time for me to snap out of it. Sometimes I have to remind myself that when all else fails, the most reliable source of Love is within myself.

I've found someone who is willing to be my "Failsafe" for the near future and am going to meet with this person soon to explore how that might work. In the meantime, I continue to work on stabilizing my health and preparing for a new round of events.

Wish me luck!