In some circles where common sex is adored, all it takes is for someone to say, "clitoris", another to say, "8000 nerve endings", and everyone within earshot will genuflect in complete agreement.
At our house, my wife's clitoris has been pretty neglected, and yet, in the last five years, she (with my help) has enjoyed more sexual pleasure (that often takes her breath away) than the prior 65 years of her life.
Prior to meeting me, she would infrequently bring herself to orgasm by stimulating her clitoris. Her main purpose was relief of sexual tension. She didn't really enjoy her orgasms that much; they took her energy away, and gave her a "fuzzy head".
In the first couple months of our marriage we were making steady progress with Karezza, but my beloved seemed to have some lingering sexual energy blockages and some emotional baggage from the distant past that she had not yet released. One weekend morning we were able to stay in bed late and I was gently helping her understand and work through her past pain to the point of forgiveness. I had the thought that an orgasm might act as a purge for the release of negative sexual energy. She was open to the idea. I lubed up my index finger and slowly and gently brought her to a shattering orgasm. At the same time, from the depths of her soul came a very loud groan that expressed deep emotional pain. I helped her to another (less dramatic) orgasm and emotional release two days later. After the second orgasm, her sexual energy flowed more freely and a large piece of her emotional baggage from the past was gone.
Five years, two clitoral orgasms, TWO, that's it! ....and my beloved has never been happier or healthier. She's happy because, in the same 5 year period, I move and balance her energy every morning and night with my male energy. Her energy now flows so freely that, often, when she hears my footsteps coming toward her, her energy will move.
About a week ago, I was propped up on one elbow and stroking her tummy as we talked after we made love. I asked if she was ok with me retracting the hood of her clitoris. She agreed, so, as softly as possible, I retracted the hood for a minute or two to have a good look at her very interesting little organ. After that she said that her clitoris then felt slightly irritated. I placed the palm of my hand lightly, without any movement, over the whole area of her mound of venus and clitoris for 3-5 minutes and she then reported that all irritation was gone.