Usually I wait for a while to report a new breakthrough that we have.
I like to make sure that I clearly understand what's happening and if it's repeatable. Yesterday morning was so amazing, and it builds on our previous experiences with deep relaxation, so I'm sharing it right away. As I shared in my last post, we usually wake each other up gently in the scissors position. We did scissors this morning with many pleasurable moments together.
When we finished, we were both completely relaxed, balanced and ready to rise from our bed and take on the day. I asked my beloved if we could try a new position for a minute or two; with both of us aware that each lovemaking position has its own distinctive energy dynamic. She laid on her left side with her bottom leg straight and her top leg bent and pulled up close to her.
She had a small kink in her back, so she settled a little differently into the bed to eliminate the kink.
I straddled her straight leg on my knees and slowly moved toward her vagina.
She was so relaxed from our earlier lovemaking that I wasn't sure, for a few moments, if I was even inside her when I inserted. When I made a small movement, she let out a groan and pitched around underneath me with energy flowing through her body. I repeated my small movement 2 or 3 times, and each time she responded in a similar way.
Then I gently lifted her upper glute with my fingers, which opened her vagina a bit more (and without intending to, I touched her labia with my fingertips). That was too much!! I went from a steady plateau of about 2, to the point of no return in about 1 second flat, then I withdrew, and had an earthshaking orgasm that I did not seek, but enjoyed while it happened.
The positive thoughts that I took away from the orgasm were how incredible our sensitivity always is because we share our energy instead of throwing it out... and also that I bounce back quickly because I have such a reservoir of love recieved that when an inadvertant orgasm happens it is barely a blip on the radar.
What happened? What was different?
(1) My beloved and I were already deeply relaxed. Our experience has been that the greatest ecstasy comes on the heels of the deepest relaxation.
(2) I think my penis touched the walls of her vagina differently than the three other positions we had settled on and stayed with since our first intercourse.
(3) The energy dynamic of this new position was (at least slightly) different.
(4) Newness may have added to our excitement, so I wasn't as continually conscious as I usually am of my sexual arousal level.
We had previously enjoyed the energy dynamic of modified missionary (with her legs in the air), but it requires too much flexibility, at least until she is able to go to yoga class more regularly.
With both scissors and spoons we are both laying relaxed on our side(s) or back, so the energy was calmer and easier to manage (even though I have often thought that the pleasure I receive from scissors or spoons with my lover would drive me completely out of my mind).
The combination of me on my knees straddling her leg (she has a lot of loving energy in her legs), both of us being already deeply relaxed, our penis and vagina interacting differently than any other time previously, and me opening her vagina a bit more seems to be what turned up the voltage a lot for her (resulting in several beneficial movements of energy all through her body.
I, in turn, was too active when her voltage was flying high, and the voltage I recieved from her very quickly sent me over the edge.
In short, when she's tossing around, the best thing for me to do is act like a statue and send energy up my spine.
My take-away at this point: The next time we repeat this new position after relaxing with scissors I will not make ANY movements during PIV, and I will be careful in the way that I touch her with my hands, and I will give myself whatever time I need for a cautious learning curve.
We are committed to Karezza for life!! It keeps the love and sparkle in our relationship. After five years (and over 3,000 times of joining our bodies together) my favorite name for her vagina is still "the garden of continual delight" and her favorite name for my penis is still "the wand of light with the magnificent head". Kinda tells the whole story, doesn't it?