In-your-face Cupid's Poisoned Arrow: “I hate cuddling after … once I get mine … go away!..."

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Nicki Minaj would like sex from her male partners three times a night, please.

On "Ellen," Minaj spoke frankly about her love life, specifically her demands of her male partners. At first Ellen DeGeneres played it coy, asking, “You enjoy ‘exercising’ three times a day?” Minaj explained that technically if she were living with someone, she wouldn’t be so demanding but, “if you see someone once or twice a week, then yeah, three times a night. When I see you, three times a night!” Ellen dug deeper about Nicki’s nightly triathlons, asking if these sessions are spread out over the evening or back-to-back. “No more than a half an hour between each thing,” she said. She added, “I hate cuddling after … once I get mine … go away! Go make me some food or something, a sandwich or something!” “I do end up getting men who like to kiss a lot and I like kissing a lot but it’s just like ‘okayyy’ … get to it. Do your foreplay stuff and hurry up, I don’t got time for all of that.”



A focus on too much stimulation can alter perception of subtler pleasures. This is true of those who oveuse internet porn and sex toys. It's a form of "tolerance" (habituation) seen in substance abusers.

Guys Who Gave Up Porn: On Sex and Romance

The Dual Control Model - The Role Of Sexual Inhibition & Excitation In Sexual Arousal And Behavior

Vibrators and "Dead Vagina Syndrome" (research and mainstream press)

Thanks for posting. I think humanity is learning something vitally important about its sexuality...the hard way. It's a shame sex therapists aren't required to learn the basics of the neuroscienc of addiction. It's causing them to miss important insights into human sexuality - as it really is, and not as they want to believe it is.

Thanks for posting.