My wife lays flat on her back on our bed. I usually start by massaging her legs from thigh to ankle. I can tell how effective I am by the sounds she makes as she lets go of tension. This is time well-spent as the more deeply relaxed she is, the better the Karezza.
....as we go into our 41st month of daily lovemaking. With Karezza my wife's vagina is "a garden of continual delight", and her favorite name for my penis is "the wand of light with the magnificent head." Whether the energy between us is vibrant because we are both well rested, or quiet because we are tired, we always relax and balance each other, with an abundance of pleasure for both of us. It's very validating as a lover to have such intense waves of pleasure coursing through my beloved that she often has a hard time catching her breath.
What follows is a sleeping posture that has worked very well for us for 10 to 12 weeks:
As more and more tension has left our bodies with daily karezza lovemaking, we have gotten more and
more used to the continual sensations of deep relaxation, and one night when we went to bed, without any
prior thought, we instinctively started to seek out a way that we could have a deep physical contact while
we slept, and yet be utterly relaxed with no tension whatsoever. It only took a minute or two.
Life is good. We have continued to make love every day since my last post. We don't really have any set order of things that we do in our sexual activity - we usually focus on what we both most need in the moment. I have ejaculated two more times in the last 2 months, and each time I regained my balance within 24 hours in the same way as I stated in the further comments from my last post.
After we had settled into the nice room where we spent our 3 day honeymoon, we took turns slowly
"unwrapping" each other, kissing, and touching, and then we took a relaxing tub bath together.
After that we took turns touching and looking over each other's bodies in the natural light. I then told her
that she was very beautiful, and that her vagina and labia were also beautiful and looked like the petals
of a flower. This was a miracle because, when we had talked a week or two before we were married,
After a 2 1/2 year absence, I am back with a very lovely wife of 3 1/2 months, and we
are both happier than we have ever been. Prior to this, we had a wonderful 2 year
relationship filled with an abundance of non-sexual touch, although we reserved any
sexual activity for our marriage. Cupid's Poisoned Arrow opened our minds to the
amazing power of touch and bonding behaviors, and gave us the confidence that we
could build a life together without the usual pitfalls found in common sex.
This is my first blog. I'd like to introduce a discovery.
I recently found in my papers a chapter I had photocopied many years ago
from the book Sex & Culture by J.D. Unwin. After reading a few pages I set
out to find a PDF on the internet if possible -- since the main premise of the
book seemed like it might correlate with Cupid's Poisoned Arrow. I did read
a few book reviews on google and I did find a PDF of Sex and Culture, and
have read enough of it to think that anyone who has read Cupid's Poisoned
Arrow, and who has a grasp on it's far-reaching implications, may also have