I just landed on this site in hopes of restoring my marriage. I am into this man for over 2 decades and he has always been into PMO to some level. I ignored my needs to the point that I finally acted out and had an affair with disasterous results. Now that my husband is on board with karezza and giving up PMO. my problem is now that I have hurt for so long with his empty promises, I am not even happy that he is willing to try this method. I am noy hopefull at all. I am drained emotionally and I don't believe anything he says. will I ever turn a corner or is it too late ? if there is hope, then what is the number one thing to do to get where I need to be ?