17 Years old Rebooting

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So, i started my rebooting 24 days ago , after finding out that porn are the cause of my ED and not only. I was so surprised to see that quiting porn and masturbation would be so easy to me , before that i would not resist without them more than 2-3 days.I had some issues when i was about to have sex intercorse and that made me wonder if i had problems so i found out that i don't have morning woods, spontaneous erections, difficulty in mentaining erections and the list may go on. In my research about rebooting I also found out that younger guys will have more dificulties into restablish sex health than older guys and even more dificult if i started with porn. I am not 100% sure about what I am doing and i will ask you guys some questions that will make my rebooting more easy and straight. Before that i want to tell you that i have a girlfriend and we are togheder for around 4 months , she is 19 and a virgin and we both want to do it but we did not reach the right moment yet, she is scared and if i strated my rebooting i did not pushed her, we cuddle , tuch eachother , masturbating eachother but not sex. (she dosen't know about my problems or rebooting)
1) In day 19 ,my girlfriend had a sleepover , she gave me a handjob and i ejaculated (first time since i started my rebooting) Dose orgasm with my girlfriend's (or sex) will afect my rebooting or help it? How and why?
2) Seeing random sexy pictures by surfing the internet (not for porn or something related to purn , just facebook and stuff) but not giving them any attention will aftect my rebooting ? I try to avoid them as much as i can.
3) I am suspecting that my rebooting will have orgasm from time to time becouse of my relationship , so that means that flatline may not occure. Flatline is essential in my rebooting?

I will keep you guys up to date with my rebooting and help people that i can help. Sorry for my bad english but it is not my native language. Thank you

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welcome

your English is great!

[quote]1) In day 19 ,my girlfriend had a sleepover , she gave me a handjob and i ejaculated (first time since i started my rebooting) Dose orgasm with my girlfriend's (or sex) will afect my rebooting or help it? How and why?
2) Seeing random sexy pictures by surfing the internet (not for porn or something related to purn , just facebook and stuff) but not giving them any attention will aftect my rebooting ? I try to avoid them as much as i can.
3) I am suspecting that my rebooting will have orgasm from time to time becouse of my relationship , so that means that flatline may not occure. Flatline is essential in my rebooting? [/quote]

Every guy's experience is different so it's hard to say that flatlining is essential or not to rebooting. It is usual and normal for most guys to go through that though.

I would eliminate the random sexy pictures. For a lot of guys, seeing sexy pictures can trigger porn thoughts and fantasies and these will hurt your rebooting.

I think having sex with a woman is a great thing and it can help your reboot. But having pressure to have sex, or think you should have sex, can cause you to have performance pressure that is not a good thing.

The best thing you can do is to do a lot of cuddling naked, eye gazing and hand holding and what-not. Try to do this for awhile before you have orgasms. Of course, this is very difficult to do as it is so natural to want to go for an orgasm. Totally understandable. You may be able to do it and do just fine. Or you may have to hold back for a bit. I'd see how it works out.

 

Seeing the sexy pictures don

Seeing the sexy pictures don't trigger any fantasies for me , i have the amazing power to vanish them right when they kick in. Most of the time I spend with my girlfriend alone we cuddle , never go right into action, and when we may try something i make sure i have my head in the game and don;t think about anything else, basicly i try to merge with her as much as i can .

Sounds like

you're making good progress.

As a woman, I can tell you that when I was 19 I thought making my partner orgasm was my Most Important Responsibility. So if you want to take things slowly while you stabilize your energy, I would suggest you tell her clearly that although you loved the handjob, you want to take it easy.

We women love to make you guys happy. (We evolved to get those sperm out of you one way or the other.)Diablo