Lots of folks here helped me. When I started here, I went back and read virtually every old post, multiple times.
It's been awesome ever since, but I know that what happens to most people in this "community" is they graduate and move on.
Mostly because this type of sex just becomes the way you do things in your life. There is not much to improve on and no reason to keep visiting.
But I think most of the "old" members do return here from time to time.
I'd love to hear from you, you know who you are.
It's been for me about 6 or so years that my wife and I have been practicing Karezza and I have some thoughts I want to share with you.
I have been glorying in approaching the limits and feeling exquisite whole body pleasure in more of an active high energy form of Karezza.
On the spectrum of let's say left/right, with left being stillness and just connection, and right being out-and-out sex almost to orgasm but not quite, I am more on the right side.
In my world all is very good. Karezza continues. Nothing has changed, which is good.
Cause and effect...lots of sexual abundance in my world, material abundance and good health continues along with it.
When I started here, maybe 6 years ago, I went back and read old threads avidly.
We continue practicing Karezza very happily. For me especially it is incredibly pleasurable and gets better all the time.
This morning I realized when I woke up in my room (we sleep separately) that I could easily feel a sort of version of that pleasure I feel with Karezza, without any penis touching or even an erection. It was not a penis experience at all.
By focusing on my root I could feel the pleasure in my whole body for an extended period of time. Not 1% as good as with my wife, but quite amazing nonetheless.
it's a documentary on Amazon Prime and it is CREEPY as all get-out but proabbly well worth seeing.
I think the rest of the world is getting there, but Japan is ahead of the curve.
Ugh. Includes pay-for-cuddles, the creepist lifesize dolls-as-girlfriends, supposed love gurus and experts who are clueless, and much more.
More masturbation correlates with greater unhappiness.
More happiness in a relationship correlates with less masturbation.
And big surprise, LOL (irony here), if people have a lot of partner sex, they tend to masturbate very little.
Recently I was away for a period of time, sadly, and when I got back I had an enormous amount of sexual energy and we both came.
I'm not saying this is bad, but I wonder how you do it if you have a relationship where you live apart during the week.
When you get together, do you come at first, and then not come the rest of the weekend? Or do you learn to avoid coming at all?
I have learned even better that a voice always says, "you should come", and when I'm inside her, I think, there is the voice, just as I expected to hear. And I pay no attention to the man behind the curtain and I avoid coming.
Except when I don't, but then I pay for it.
I found some things that increase libido and erections this year which I've been practicing, and all is good.
As I said a year ago, nothing changed wrt my wife and her low drive but I finally stopped caring.