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lube problem - any ideas?

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We've been going along quite well using lube. I was using MCT oil, but it irritated my penis. Then we moved to butter but I think my penis developed some irritation that is still going on and we can't use any lube at all that is oil-based.

I'm getting aloe vera gel today and will try that.

Any ideas are welcomed!

Not enough sex

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https://www.takimag.com/article/you-people-need-to-get-nekkid/print

Entertaining but has some truth to it

2) “Seventeen percent of Americans ages 18 to 29 now believe that a man inviting a woman out for a drink ‘always’ or ‘usually’ constitutes sexual harassment.” (The article didn’t offer any stats for women asking men, men asking men, or women asking women.)

 

the "old member" reunion thread - please tell us how you are doing if you've been here a long time

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Lots of folks here helped me. When I started here, I went back and read virtually every old post, multiple times.

It's been awesome ever since, but I know that what happens to most people in this "community" is they graduate and move on.

Mostly because this type of sex just becomes the way you do things in your life. There is not much to improve on and no reason to keep visiting.

But I think most of the "old" members do return here from time to time.

I'd love to hear from you, you know who you are.

coming once in awhile and other reflections on Karezza

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It's been for me about 6 or so years that my wife and I have been practicing Karezza and I have some thoughts I want to share with you.

I have been glorying in approaching the limits and feeling exquisite whole body pleasure in more of an active high energy form of Karezza. 

On the spectrum of let's say left/right, with left being stillness and just connection, and right being out-and-out sex almost to orgasm but not quite, I am more on the right side.

a new observation about self pleasure

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We continue practicing Karezza very happily. For me especially it is incredibly pleasurable and gets better all the time.

This morning I realized when I woke up in my room (we sleep separately) that I could easily feel a sort of version of that pleasure I feel with Karezza, without any penis touching or even an erection. It was not a penis experience at all.

By focusing on my root I could feel the pleasure in my whole body for an extended period of time. Not 1% as good as with my wife, but quite amazing nonetheless.

love and sex in Japan

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it's a documentary on Amazon Prime and it is CREEPY as all get-out but proabbly well worth seeing.

I think the rest of the world is getting there, but Japan is ahead of the curve.

Ugh. Includes pay-for-cuddles, the creepist lifesize dolls-as-girlfriends, supposed love gurus and experts who are clueless, and much more.

big masturbation study shows unhappiness with masturbation

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http://www.austin-institute.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/M-word-manusc...

More masturbation correlates with greater unhappiness.

More happiness in a relationship correlates with less masturbation.

And big surprise, LOL (irony here), if people have a lot of partner sex, they tend to masturbate very little.

Who knew???

 

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