We've been having intercourse almost every day and I've observed that slowly, slowly, I think some real desire is coming to Sparkles.
But the other day, we were talking And I pointed out that the Tantra books I've read all sort of say desire is not only not needed, but maybe not wanted. I don't really experience that. I have very strong desire. But still. There is a point here. It's not sex like hot sex. It's a way to connect on a deep level with yourself and your partner.
No sex drive or low sex drive, so what. Everyone wants and loves to connect, right?
So that's what I told her. And I really see how this is so true.
I said it's all about the connection. Feeling the connection. And feeling my penis and how her vagina feels. Being present for all that, is it. It's All of it.
And by the way...I said, that there is a ton of sexual energy that is locked in her breasts. If there wasn't she wouldn't feel so strongly ticklish and funny and defensive about her breasts. Or the heart chakras. Woo woo. Whatever. But those breasts contain the secret to her unlocking her real true sex drive.
I think we're very slowly getting there. It may take months more. But it's fantastic.