I wanted to ask you who are practicing Karezza.
Do you find sex more pleasurable than it used to be, the same or less?
And do you find your sex drive has increased, remained the same or decreased?
For me the pleasure is off the charts and has kept getting better. But awhile back one of the guys here posted something that sort of shocked me, to the effect that it wasn't really so much about higher pleasure for him than it was about more connection and sense of loving connection. And it is all that for me too, but it is really incredibly pleasurable these days and the pleasure goes on and on really.
My sex drive has always been high. It remains quite high but two changes. One is that I really miss it if we don't engage in intercourse at least every other day. And two is that it is not urgent like it used to be or uncomfortable. I think that although I wouldn't want to, I could go a time without sex now, and I doubt I would masturbate either. Although who knows as that isn't what life has presented to me. Anyway, it just doesn't feel urgent anymore although I do have a high sex drive as ever.
So anyhow, I'd love to hear your thoughts.