Recently I was away for a period of time, sadly, and when I got back I had an enormous amount of sexual energy and we both came.
I'm not saying this is bad, but I wonder how you do it if you have a relationship where you live apart during the week.
When you get together, do you come at first, and then not come the rest of the weekend? Or do you learn to avoid coming at all?
I think the anticipation that I had created so much sexual energy it was impossible for me not to come. But if I had to be away from my wife every week and only see her on weekends (which I would hate cuz I'm crazy about my wife) I would learn to not come even then as it's so much better.
But how do you handle this?