Ever since we started this journey of Karezza it was mostly all my initiative, my drive, my pushing.
My partner was going along with me but over the months it's been much of an act of faith on my part, and of course the huge pleasure I get, that has kept us going on this path.
Then last Sunday she and I had an orgasm which I mentioned in my previous post. And she made a positive comment about this approach. Since then, it's been MUCH better. She has lubricated a lot better and is more into the whole process.
So I would say this has been a quiet breakthrough. Like a lot of things worthwhile, this one takes time, patience and dedication even in the face of some discouragement. But it's been so so worth it and our love keeps feeling like it's deeper and our connection is amazing.
And I don't feel this is just all coming from me anymore. Whew!
So if you're in the same boat as I was, in some ways, take heart.