Today we spent a long time cuddling. I had written off sex for this morning.
Then I went on top and did soft entry. At some point we were kissing and the kisses changed quality, much more sensual and involved, more mutual. This is very unusual.
I kept my penis soft at her entrance and she was dry, then at some point she was wet and we made love for a bit. After awhile I pulled out. She said she felt it a lot more then ever before, and described the garden of love area and that somehow I had gone deeper and she had really felt it this time.
I've been focusing on my own sensations these days and not worrying about her arousal. I felt it a lot too.
She cuddled with me and then after a minute she climbed on top of me. I wasn't hard. But I inserted soft and she was obviously very aroused and had a rather lengthy orgasm a minute or so later.
Not sure what this means. I don't seem to be really hard when she's on top. I wasn't really hard but I did soft entry with her on top and she had a long orgasm that way in any event. Maybe it's just a bit of leftover anxiety from the past with me, or maybe it's a rebooting thing.
In the old days of hot sex I had no problem with her on top but I did have anxiety about other positions.