A few weeks ago and again a few days ago I was struck with "blue balls".
I haven't had this condition in the last 10 months practicing a lot of intense cuddling and bonding and lots of intercourse, and why did it strike again?
I figured it out. It's when my fantastic, wonderful and amazing partner is on top and I'm inside her. Something about that position was getting me more fired up and more into "wanting" type sex. When I first started this adventure for several months I would frequently lose my erection with her on top and I think I was over-compensating and thinking about it too much.
I would regain my focus on my root but it was getting me out of my focus zone a bit and that means I had to pull back from getting too excited and after awhile it meant a "hard shud down" of the ejaculation machinery which my gonads no like.
Since I figured this out it's been fine. I can have her on top and not get too excited and no problems at all on any front.
As I practice this, and as my partner is much more into it than ever before, I notice daily changes and it keeps getting better.
Just wondered if you had experienced anything similar with certain positions? I just felt like posting something along these lines, everything is great and there's really nothing new but it's fun to discuss stuff like this with likeminded people.