I'd love to know what you've learned this year, especially if you've been practicing Karezza for some time.
I'm still learning all the time. Our sex life is great, very stable. Very enjoyable on all fronts. It is better than ever.
I am still figuring out how not to come when I don't want to. It doesn't occur that often, but more than I would like. I'd prefer not to come at all.
I have never "solved" the "low drive" on my wife's part, but it doesn't really matter. We have a lot of sex and it's very pleasurable and we have a wonderful life.