Sparkles was deeply worried that I would be unhappy now that I quit masturbating and am looking solely to our sexual union to meet my needs.
I in turn became very clingy and needy and altogether unpleasant.
We had some conversations about it. I said, let's try to have regular snuggly time, with or without intercourse, every day, before bedtime and upon waking.
She said, that seems too rules based and mechanical.