We've been at this adventure for about nine months.
I've stopped worrying about my wife or her lack of libido or whatnot. That's just crazy and I finally figured out that it is totally unnecessary.
We have sex every few days and I really enjoy it more than anything. And she seems to enjoy it too.
They say "actions speak louder than words" and those are the actions. The rest is just a bunch of garbage my mind churns up and I don't have to listen.