Last night we had a beautiful, relaxed session of nude canoodling (kissing and cuddling amorously). My wife commented how nice it was to have such an expanded range of lovemaking as opposed to just "off = no sex" or "on = we're having full-tilt sex".
I was amazed that I felt so calm in my core and didn't even get hard even though I felt very attracted to my wife and was immensely enjoying our warm, sensual connection. Just a short while ago what we shared last night would have seemed impossible to me.
I still haven't mentioned my recent commitment to Karezza. This way of interacting comes so naturally to us that I don't need to convince her of anything. Plus, I'm finding it more romantic to "show instead of tell" as we improvise our life together.