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drawn to karezza

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When I found karezza I knew it was the practice I had been searching for my whole adult life.It combined clear presence with deep intimacy. My partner tried his best to warm to the practice. It wasn't a good fit for him. We experimented with a compromise. Ultimately it was clear to me that we weren't meant to be romantic partners.
I am now on my own and feeling stronger every day. When I am ready I would like to meet a man who is drawn to karezza and wants to practice deep intimacy together.

Support for patience

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I am in need of some support. It is challenging to be so passionate about Karezza and to have my partner be somewhat willing. I am the energy behind doing this and he is a resistant and intermitently willing participant. Maybe it is too much to ask for him to really put his energy behind practicing karezza. I certainly have my issues too. One of them is that patience isn't my strong suit. I am so excited about actually beginning to practice karezza in a sustainable way. Thanks

♥ Woo hoo!

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My partner and I had a break through. He stopped resisting karezza and let go and became present and I felt so safe. My father's face peeled off of my partner. I was able to be with my aversion and surround myself with love. I felt safe. We found a way to create safety and juiciness. I am grateful for all of your support.

♥Couples journey

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I am part of a couple and we've been together for six years. We live together half the week and I work in a different city three days a week. I read Cupid's Poisoned Arrow lat October and it resonated with me so much that I began experimenting with being non-orgasmic. I noticed that I had more energy milder mood swings and no more vaginal infections. My partner,although curious about the bonding exercises wanted no part of being non-orgasmic. We decided we would still have traditional sex but he would come outside of me and masturbate.