I met a weird and wonderful woman today on a train journey and we spent a bizarre afternoon together. Knowing I can't have O actually makes me very chilled. I am no longer goal orientated i.e. 'trying to get laid'. It's like the pressure is off and I am just being myself. This seems to come across and if anything has increased attraction levels towards me. It was as if this girl picked up on something and our time together was very natural.