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possible resource for men and women

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Submitted by Islander on

Here's an odd sounding possible resource for both genders. Great for those of us staying single for a while, but also for couples.

It tells about the TARA Aproach -- how to use touch -- mostly just on yourself but also gives examples for two people together -- using certain meridians (not accupressure) to release intimate inhibitions and past scars so we can melt back into that resonance of feeling ourselves unconditionally loved:

Has anyone heard of Oxytocin Circles?

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There is a group of women (a worldwide movement, it appears) I just came across who call themselves BraveHeart and they gather to empower women in various ways. They're strong believers in the power of oxytocin and they hold oxytocin circles for women. I just came across them and haven't yet found any groups near me, but wondered if any women (or men) here have heard of them and have any thoughts to share. They seem different than cuddle parties. Might be nice for single women who haven't found that Karezza partner yet.

Question about masturbating while fantasizing a specific other

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Would masturbation while fantasizing a specific person have a similar affect as having sex with that person as far as eventually losing attraction for that one as a fertilization receptacle, thus eventually desiring to move on to another person/object to fantasize over?

I do understand that masturbation per se causes undesirable results regardless. But still wondered about this specific.

Now I see why my husband was so happy

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My late husband and I were meditators, energy healers, and he was an artist with a mind that naturally took things slowly and savored the moment. With his genital herpes which I did not have and didn't want to get, and with me not being into condoms, we found other ways to be intimate quite often. Now that I've discovered Karezza and what it does for a person even beyond the bedroom, I'm starting to understand things more clearly.