Hey everyone, I'm Kap - awesome to meet you :)
I recently found his site and have been excited to begin exploring karezza with my wife. We are both mid 20's, are just recently married and have been together for 4 years. We had a chat about what I had found a few weeks ago, and although she was a bit unsure at first, she has now jumped on board the idea and is enjoying the beginning of this new journey.
Rather than using "she" I'll use a name :) let's go with... Em.
Em and I began the couple of weeks of no masturbation or sex and used the bonding techniqes, which went really well. For the first few days I was quite sore afterwards, but now that my body has calmed down a bit I'm feeling less of this, even after karezza.
Last night was our third karezza experience, and it's been going well. I do have one question though which I haven't been able to find any info on. Once I am inside Em everything is great, and we work on our relaxation. But after around 5-10 minutes, Em begins to get an uncomfortable feeling, which can progress to a burning feeling.
This hasn't happened before (we've been having conventional sex since we met). On our first try of karezza we thought lube might help, but unfortunately after a little while of remaining still, the feeling persisted. We have found that by using a little bit of gently foreplay Em feels more ready, and thing are better for longer, but it seems the discomfort creeps up sooner or later non the less.
Just wondering if anyone has experienced this? At this stage we thought it could be because we are still learning to relax, and the tension still there might be the cause. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated! Thanks,