So this last week something has clicked in my husband's head. And his penis. It seems he's really begun to fully understand what is meant by "male authority" and "releasing Shakti" and other very tantra-centric ideas. We've been studying Barry Long and Diana Richardson together for a few months (I read more than he does and we talk together about it) and he's had what I can only describe as some kind of epiphany. It's amazing and full of sustained, satisfying pleasure. I haven't even wanted a traditional orgasm (that is until last night when I let my temperature get too high) and I can see where I will feel the need for them less and less as time goes on. The first time this new love style appeared for us, something amazing happened within me (and continues to happen). I've never felt more beautiful, more feminine, more in touch with love. Those feelings are far more satisfying than any peak orgasm.
And his orgasms have been all together different. He says that he's suddenly realized he could draw them out - make them last more than double their usual time. He is also barely ejaculating. He used to expel a lot and lately (since he's found the key to his new orgasm style) he only loses a little. I know because I can smell and feel it a bit the next day, but it's nothing like the fountain of fluid it used to be. My question: Have other men experienced something like this when exploring tantra and similar ways of making love? Could he be retaining his energy now? He seems in a better mood, has more energy, etc. Any thoughts from men or women out there on this topic?
The whole thing is very fascinating and I am looking forward to further experimentation. There seems to be an entire world of sexual expression that most people never even touch on in their lives. I'm grateful to get the opportunity and will keep everyone posted. Now if I could just get to the part of tackling emotions better, channeling that into love, and letting love heal it all. That will be a whole other level of experience and satisfaction. :D
All the best to everyone for a wonderful rest of your week and a loving weekend. ♥