I really appreciate the ability of couples who are escaping orgasm for several months. I and my wife used to engage orgasmic sex after every four weeks just before my wife's period. Now, my wife is pregnant for 7 months and we didn't need to have this 4 weeks limit. But I couldn't go more than 6 weeks so far. We had our last orgasm yesterday after around 35-37 days I think. I started to feel horny constantly and it was getting too hot during lovemaking. Eventually we both went for mutual orgasms. With my dear wife pregnant, many things has changed for the last several months.
I hope all of you are doing well. I have been bit busy lately. My wife is now 7 months pregnant with our third child. Though it was not planned but we are very happy about it. Our version of karezza and my wife's irregular taking of birth pills didn't seem to work. But, karezza seems to work perfectly to make love with my wife during pregnancy. Our intimate, almost static and non-orgasmic karezza lovemaking really suit fine with her condition. I think our love, understanding, chemistry and responsibility towards each were never such great. My other two lovely children are doing fine.
Two days ago, I got bit temperature with cold. Not that much serious. At night, when cuddling before sleep I was reluctant to connect with my dear wife in case she got the fever. She told that she could have the fever already from our kissing. We connected and had karezza lovemaking. With no effort involved, I felt so relaxed and I fell to sleep.
I am curious to hear two things from the karezza couple here with child/children.
How much affection you show to your spouse in front of your child/children? Being in the love mood all the time do you hug, kiss and cuddle in front of them? We personally do that (of course gently) in front of our kids. We deem that demonstration of non sexual affection makes them feel secured and cared knowing their parents are still in love so much. Experts favour this view. i.e
I think karezza makes conventional lovemaking more intense when purposely done after abstaining from orgasms for quite along time. Few days back, we engaged into karezza with slow movements (usually we remain still). I edged after maybe after around 15 minutes and moved to missionary position. I really felt the neediness to ejaculate and did deep inside her. We both had strong orgasms. We remained connected afterward. Still after a strong orgasms I didn't go flaccid. We made love one more time after about half an hour and ended with orgasming together.
After over 13 years of married life together still now me and my wife still can't get enough of each other. It's like we are getting pulled to each other constantly and thankfully karezza is behind all of these.
Seems like we are getting addicted to karezza day by day. Time is passing but still karezza is never getting old, rather is getting deeper and more intense. We are on our fourteenth years of marriage and still we don't get enough of each other. We feel like madly in love.
After reading Emerson's blog about new karezza technique just thought to write something from mine.
For us karezza means making love not having sex. I and my beloved wife engaged in our own version of karezza every morning and night to reunite us physically and mentally to feel the ultimate intimacy and love. We make love for hours and when we are finished we are so relaxed and happy.There is no feeling of tiredness or uneasiness among us.
I think the beauty of karezza is you can make love with your wife 1) as long as you want, 2) as many times as you want and 3) at any time you want. When to start? Whenever anyone of us want. My wife doesn't refuse me anymore if I want to and I also don't refuse her. But usually we initiate together. Arousal, erection, wetness don't matter anymore. And when to stop? For us we stop when we have stuff to do or get interrupted. There are situations when we just connected for minutes and got interrupted.