We have been practicing karezza like lovemaking for around three years but we don't abstain from orgasm completely. I usually ejaculate inside her day before starting of her menstrual cycle. We know it's safe time for that. But there has been also few incidents of surprise orgasms and wet dreaming inside her. But we generally stay around in a non-aroused relaxed state far from orgasm ( around 50-60% considering 100% for orgasm). My wife is 36 years old and has been using pills for birth control. We never liked condom.
Bonding nature of karezza is so powerful. It will make you crave for your lover's company. We now just love each others presence. We just love doing things together. We used to prefer bathing alone before but now we just love it. Karezza has made me a family man. I really enjoy spending time with my lovely kids and wife on watching tv or in playing games. It will make you sick for your home and for your family. I had a official tour for three days and I took my wife and kids together with me with my own expenses. We had a wonderful time.
The goal of our lovemaking is to physically and mentally unite. We do it to comfort each other rather than to satisfy only our own sexual hunger. Sometimes we are aroused, but most of the the times we are barely aroused. Nothing can make us more relaxed than me resting deep inside her.
My wife and I have been doing something like karezza for around three years without knowing about it. After learning about karezza from here I think I should share some of our experience.