If you and your partner live in LA or SF, and you would be willing to speak about your karezza practice, please contact me via PM.
who likes cuddling and massage, but doesn't care about sex. He's functional, not a porn user. He just doesn't feel drawn to sex. He's flexible about relocating.
I'm posting this for a man, whom I met briefly about 15 years ago. He's a lovely guy. Bright, good conversationalist and deep thinker. I told him that there are asexuality forums, which might be a good bet.
If anyone here has suggestions for him, please let me know.
I don’t really care much about sex. It is not high on my list of relationship priorities. But I do care about you. I care about the softness of my touch and the depth of our connection. I care about bonding. Slow heartbeats quietly in sync, our foreheads pressed together, the tips of our noses brushing up against one another and our eyes locked in mutual adoration. This is the kind of loving that calls to me.
Interviewer Lucien Bonnafoux and Marnia discuss karezza, human pair-bonding perils and bonding behaviors. Lucien was a bit distracted, but there's some good information. Be prepared to fast-forward through the interminable ads.
Youth and intense sexual arousal are a surprisingly volatile combination
Research on animals suggests that first sexual experiences may have more power to shape our individual sexual proclivities than we would guess, and that they do so via specific brain mechanisms. Consider the following research on young, virgin rats: