So much has happened since I stopped PMO, it's feels like a lifetime ago when I made my first blog here.
I've met an amazing girl, we have SO much in common it's absurd, she's literally the summation of what I've fantasized about in daydreams.
I don't even know where to start.
It's an amazing and quite insane story of how we met. But I'm in need of some guidance first lol
This isn't too new for me, I've had regular relationships before. They didn't last very long, but I have a feeling that after employing the theory of Karezza into our time together is what's making our connection grow more and more, despite the regular Orgasmic sex.
I met her and that same night, we had crazy Orgasmic Sex. This was the first time I had an orgasm in a month at the least. So there was ALOT built up behind it lol
We kept seeing each other and kept having Orgasmic Sex. After the first time we were both on a cloud the next day. But what I've noticed is that we've slowly started to drive ourselves into the ground from having this kind of sex literally 2-3 times a day. Physically and mentally we find ourselves being drained. She'll get really sore, and have headaches, and I'll be really tired and have a hard time keeping an erection with all of the Orgasms I've had :p Condoms are EXTREMELY annoying too I might add, and we're having a time trying to find the right one for this kind of activity.
My Body cant take that, and neither can hers :p
So here we are. Young 'star crossed' lovers whom cant keep their hands off of each other- like when we say goodbye, we literally have to give ourselves half an hour of kissing time before we part ways, yah we're THAT couple haha :DD- and are totally into each other, but at the same time are passively being pushed away by the effects of Orgasmic Sex.
What I'm doing right now to mitigate these effects, is spending ALOT of time cuddling, kissing, eye gazing, and playing with my lady. This kind of affection REALLY has a big affect on her feelings for me and overshadows that dissonance we sometimes have the day after orgasmic sex. We feel SO close and inseparable when we do this. We vibe so much I swear they can feel it the resonance across the street. We connect on a level that I KNOW young people our age will probably never experience due to the PMO epidemic happening these days. We feel these kind of things and we KNOW it's special, and something that doesn't happen often or by chance. It makes us all the more determined to stay together for as long as possible. We actually look forward to this kind of activity MORE than Orgasmic Sex.
But I'm feeling like we're sort of in a pickle at the moment.
We both have this socially conditioned desire to have Orgasmic Sex, but at the same time we this natural feeling of not wanting to. Every time we have it this 'expectation bar' that is being raised higher for the next time, and we're both expected to surpass it.
I've introduced her to the idea of Karezza, and she seemed indifferent to the thought of it. She figured it would be 'boring' during intercourse, but then she also loved the idea of getting closer with me.
So here's my question.
Should we jump into this Karezza cloud immediately and start embracing it fully? Or should we keep having Orgasmic sex but slowly and progressively start to limit it by decreasing the amount of times we do that and start increasing the cuddling :D
We are on Day 2 of no sex and not seeing each other atm, so our desire for each other has gone up tremendously.
Any tips, guidance, or anything at all would be awesome; not just on this Karezza idea, but also on the first steps of young and blooming relationship in general. This is an exciting time for the both of us, and we both want to make sure that it lasts :D
I truly believe Karezza holds the key to that.