So last night I was talking to a close female friend of mine (totally platonic, for what it's worth), and I told her everything. Told her about the porn addiction, and my rebalancing efforts over the last 6 months.
This is significant because I have not told a single person in real life about my addiction or my recovery efforts. Only people online know about this. I was extremely reassured to hear her tell me exactly the sorts of things that Marnia and the guys who are on this site have been telling me - she said that she thought it was very commendable that I recognized the problem and took action to combat it, and she also reassured me that even though I have never successfully had intercourse because of porn-induced ED, that I would surely find a girlfriend / significant other who would be willing to be patient with me and help me overcome this issue.
Though I certainly appreciate the kind words and support from people online, it's quite powerful to share that with a person in real life, and to have them provide reassurance that things will ultimately be OK. Just thought I'd share that, because it certainly meant a lot to me and her words will be something I hold onto as I continue this process.