PE and ED from masturbating looking at porn

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Hi guys!!! I really dont know how to start.Im 37 years old having this problem for a very long time.As far as I remember I think will be about 18 or 19 years.I started looking at porn on magazines or some VHS was on that time.I used to watch porn maybe 2-3 times a week and masturbate is well.Back in that time I used to be a DJ at some club and I did not have a problem with the girls they used to come all time every weekend diferent one but thats back in the days.In the mean time the internet come along and porn use to be for free.I used to stay hours and hours watching porn and masturbate like a maniac and still have a sex life to.But slowly slowly I notice my erections are not hard anymore and I started having Premature Ejaculation.I quit porn on some point when I meet my wife but after a very short time I fall again in this trap watching porn and masturbate again even I had a woman next to me willing to do whatever I will ask her to do in bed.So to cut the story short at the moment I still have the Premature Ejaculation witch is very bad I will come in 30 second having sex.And ED.At the moment Im using viagra for erections but my biggest problem is to get out from porn addiction and hopefully I wont have anymore problems with ED and PE.Sorry for the writing but Im not verry skilled with english language.I hope I will find some guideliness here some advice from some other people with the same problem like mine.Thanks for reading my post and I will wait for some feedback.

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Welcome

Thanks for taking the time to write in English.

Sorry you're having troubles. Did you check through the FAQs here?

http://yourbrainonporn.com/is-my-premature-ejaculation-related-to-my-por...

http://yourbrainonporn.com/erectile-dysfunction-question

You could give your brain a chance to "reboot," and see what it can do for you. Lots of guys notic all kinds of improvements that way. Formore: http://yourbrainonporn.com/node/79

There are also some rebooting accounts about PE (and ED): http://yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-accounts

best to get over this and get on with a great sex life

By the way, your English is excellent.

if you stop masturbating, stop having orgasms, and stop porn, after awhile your brain will recover most likely and you'll have good erections again. And the premature ejaculation will get better.

The best thing is to do a lot of physical cuddling and snuggling with your wife but avoid sex for awhile while you recover from porn.

Sex or abstinence?!?!?!?!?!?

Hello again.I believe will be a bit hard just to play with my wife and not to have sex.She do not know about my problem with porn.Offcourse she know about ED and PE but not about porn addiction.Im working in a remote area and Im at home 1 week a month most of the time Im at work with the boys.So my question will be:::To have sex with my wife or not.I think I can overcome not to watch porn and not masturbate for 2 weeks and after that I will be at home for a week with my wife and back again at work for 2 weeks without porn and masturbation.I dont know what to say.Im confused scared couse the situatin I am in.I dont know for how long my wife can take the pain.Is not a healthy life at all what I have done all this years without thinking what are the consequnces.

just tell your wife the truth

Women know that guys look at porn. Women don't know that addiction can be the result.

It might be a good idea to be honest with her and that takes the pressure off and makes it a team effort instead of you alone by yourself trying to recover.

If you say "honey, I had an addiction to porn that I never told you or anyone about. I've quit now. But I need your help" then what will be the result? What are you afraid will happen?

Hello again

If I will tell my wife the truth she will be gone the next day.I know her long enough how she will react.So I hope to resolve this problem by myself hopeffuly.Till now I did not have a look at porn fantasies or masturbating for about 2 weeks.I will try to stay like that for how long I can.As far as I know porn masturbating or fantasies are not same as having sex.So I will se what will happen in the mean time.All I can say is good luck guys and hang in there