Back in July, I wrote to Diana Richardson to ask her about something she mentions in her video (and her books) as far as body changes that can happen when a woman brings her focus into her breasts and begins to love herself and feel herself in that way. I do a daily breast meditation and also get and give all my love through my breasts when I am with my beloved. About a year ago, I had to purchase new bras that are several cup sizes larger (although my band size has decreased), while still wearing the same jeans, etc., and have noticed my thighs are smaller and more toned.
It has been awhile since I've blogged here, but I finally feel I have a few things to write about, so I thought I'd give it a go...I'll write about the other things in separate posts. This one is about bliss.
This article is from 2009 and I stumbled across it in some of my readings of late~~I found it so interesting and romantic in a weird way!
I love the suppositions it makes as to why we started walking upright (awwww, so sweet!):
Just saw this on my Osho Facebook page and thought I would share it here for anyone interested~~for me, this exercise has been absolutely life-changing.
Lately I've had so many thoughts, so many epiphanies, so many "ah ha!" moments that I don't know if my words here will even make sense! But I must try because I feel the need to release these thoughts into the universe so I can begin collecting new thoughts.
I'm currently reading two books at once: Diana Richardson's "Slow Sex" and Barry Long's "To Woman In Love." An interesting combination that keeps my mind churning.
The other night I was lying next to my lover with my head on his chest and I was just lightly caressing his penis with my fingertips as I love to do. It was not done with the intent to arouse, but just to feel nice and he loves it (okay, who wouldn't, lol?).
In almost no time, he went from a soft penis to a full-on erection. And then he commented on how interesting it was to him that he could be lying there fully relaxed, breathing normally, and have such an erection.
After months of doing karezza with my very-willing partner, we have come to realize how very sensitive our bodies have become~
The last time we were together, while he was inside me, he said, "I love you" and before saying it back, I kissed him on the cheek. That kiss almost sent him over the edge.
I would never in my wildest dreams have imagined that a mere kiss on my man's cheek could almost bring him to an orgasm.
So now we must be very, very careful~~kissing on the lips has to be done very carefully, too!
Last weekend I experienced something new (yet again!) with my lover and it was so wonderful I wanted to share.
A little background, as some of you know, I've been reading the Richardson tantra books and in Diana's book, "The Heart of Tantric Sex," she talks about something she experienced while working as a massage therapist.
It works very, very well! A tad bit challenging to get the "magic wand" inside, but fun and funny to try it!
We found the penis has the same magnetic, electrical, wonderful properties whether it is soft or hard~~amazing!
We tried this technique at the end of a particularly long, tiring day (where we had already spent two hours or so in the morning having karezza/tantra intercourse--beautiful, snake-like erection with no orgasm) and so his penis was done for the day...or so we thought!
First of all, thank you Marnia for referencing Diana Richardson's book, "The Heart of Tantric Sex: A Unique Guide to Love and Sexual Fulfillment" in another thread! It has truly changed my life. There is also a companion book written by her husband, Michael Richardson, called "Tantric Sex for Men: Making Love a Meditation" which is as good, if not better (I gave it to my lover *after* I read it).