We had a horrible bought of flu in March and difficulties before that. I declared to my wife that I was going on an "orgasm diet". She is not super interested when not feeling well, and her health has lagged behind mine a little.
I think she appreciates that I have picked up an oar. There were a couple of signs of interest yesterday. She told me "I don't know how or why this works, but you've done this before and you are like night and day." I don't want to seem like I am totally dependant on my hormones to be less moody, but there is some reality to it. I don't know if everyone is wired that way.
Also, she was reading about "eastern philosophy" and "abstinence" on the Internet and it was research she was doing on her own instead of crap I was making her read.
Hmmmm. We will see.