. I met a girl recently and we from the beginning I introduced her to the ideas of the exchanges. We had 10 days together and it went well. She was certainly open minded and willing to try it out. She struggled at times to understand why I experienced "hangovers" after orgasm and for her hadnt always made the connection between relationship disharmony and orgasm., despite that she felt there was something in this worth exploring. She wondered about wether oral sex can be part of the bonding excersies if it is done from a simiilar space as the intercourse, ie slow, gently with stillness. I'm not convinced as it seems to have strong associations with erotic images and part of conventional foreplay but then so can intercourse. interested to hear what other think on this.
Also I dont suppose the book is published in Hebrew by an chance. My partner is from israel and its taking a while for her to read in english?