I have the fiance that is in complete denial that he has a problem. Even though I fully expected it, it did not help matters when his psyciatrist told him yesterday that it is completely normal for a 37-year-old to MO once per day, even when he's having great sex with his lady 5-7 times per week. Does ANYONE seek help BEFORE they reach problems with ED? Or is this the true Rock Bottom? My brave & loving sister is navigating this with me and she expressed it in a way I had not quite heard before: for this type of addict, the addiction itself makes them seek help. Once ED hits, they can no longer satisfy the addiction - can't go to the local dealer and "buy an erection" - so ultimately (once Viagra,etc no longer help) the addiction itself forces the addict to seek help. This is “Rock Bottom”.