When we fell in bed last night I reminded my wife that the night's Exchange called for dancing.
"I'm too tired to dance. What else?"
"Well, the other option would be for each of us to choose a non erotic bonding behavior."
"Sounds good. How about foot massages?"
Problem is, As I massaged her feet, I began to climb higher and higher. Plus, PW didn't motion me away as she had in the past.
Long story short, we were both ready to bag the Exchanges for at least a time.
She immediately got extremely turned on. I ejaculated almost immediately, without the O.
She didn't O, but she was extremely frustrated at the end. She did, however, go to sleep OK.
We've already decided to forego the exchanges again tonight. We're failures, but that's OK. We're loving each other. Not sure if we'll ever figure this out for us, but we're having fun while we're trying.
I'll keep you all informed.