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i need to get out of this frustration.. i m in my 10 th adyu opf the reboot process..... i hopw i want to take 3 months of reboot process.i need to have determined thought... focused...i want to oiver come this f%%k ing problem.....

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more info would be helpful in

more info would be helpful in providing some advice for you but my biggest piece of advice is to not get discouraged and to find what works for you. I've seen addiction my whole life since I was young and know it's a continual process. I've had numerous setbacks from edging, masturbating and watching porn. Every time though I get back into avoiding it. I'm discovering what emotional triggers make me want to use porn (it's funny I behave just like a drug addict or an alcoholic with the stuff).

My point is, don't give up, even in the face of what you perceive as failure. If you stumble, get back up. It's that simple. I'm on probably my umteenth attempt in about 7 or 8 months. I'm a few days from going the longest I have without pmo. I used to m a little bit but haven't at ALL this time.

As mentioned above you have

As mentioned above you have to patient with your self, the reboot process is very stressful and trying both physically and emotionally. I have failed several times over the past year of doing this, but I have learned a lot about myself each time and honestly feel like I have control of my life even though I haven't reached my goal yet.

my problem

I m in my 13th day.Thanks for all of u.But when i see a women, i see in sexual way.. like looking the breast and ass..I cant control that.I watched porn reguraly for 3 years.As my job is very stressfull, so to forget everything i used to watch the porn, then i became addicted. When i had a chance to fuck a bitch, my cock unable to raise up , or resulted in PME..Then i became aware of PORN RELATED ED. I Became to understand my problem. so i started REBOOT P rocess .But when i image the result, that i may going to get, i feel happy.I focussed not to masturbate, or to watch porn.If i cant control this, then i lose my entire life for some simple pleasure..After 13 days no PMO,i M looking women often, like looking all the women..But at the same time, i m trying to control my mind for not to see them...

Tomorrow is my 4th week.

I m feeling great today. 20 Days of no PMO.Today I saw a bitch in the bus, cant control my feeling.I admire her round ass.But i m in my completion of my 3rd week.Hope some day i bang a chick very harder.I m would f%%k Like monster some day...

Need ur suggestion

Today i have started my 4th week.Feeling extremely great and looking to acheive my goal.I set goal as 120 days.Do any one think 120 days is enough for perfect fuck.Or do i require a longer than 120 days.My age is 27.I have been watching porn from my age 18..I m totall addicted.For the last three years.,I been looking porn regularly like daily..Then i came to realise, i m addicted .This is my condition, now 120 days target is enough for me or should i need to extent more than 120 days..

everyone's different

you can't know in advance if 120 days are enough, too long, or not long enough.

You have to be patient and not try to figure out in advance how long it will all take.

This habit took years to become a part of you. It won't take years to get out of it, but how long it will take and the path it will take can't be predicted in advance.

If this is your first time

If this is your first time rebooting, you are doing a really good job. It took me several attempts before I got to three weeks. You also want to evaluate what you're trying to get out of this whole process. Are you just trying to improve your sexual performance or change your perception of women as sex objects? The reason I bring this up is because if you are doing this just for the former, you may fall back into watching porn. Atleast for me the point of this reboot process was to change my perverted view of women and at the same time improve my sexual performance with them. Good luck!

Try this series

and use Google translate:

And this one:

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/i-quit-porn-but-my-potency-and-libido-are...

Basically, the brain needs time to come back into balance. Some guys get their libido back before their potency; others the reverse. And still others notice various symptoms even while they are still seeing some improvements.

Be patient.

 

CANT CONTROL

MASTURBATED AFTER 31 DAYS. FELT GREAT.TOO MUCH STRESS RELEIVED.I M A MARKETING GUY, I USED TO TRAVEL BY BIKE. I FEEL SO CHILL AFETR I MASTURBATDE, I MOVED FOR 2 SEC ONLY ,THE SEMEN LEAKED.I WANT TO END UP IN ATLEAST 90 DAYS.CAN I CURE MY ISSUE?..BUT I DID NOT WATCH PORN,THIS TIME

50 days, 2 m , no p

today i completed my 50 days of No PORN.i FELT SO CONFIDENT., AND I WANT TO PROCEED FOR EVER..BUT I MASTURBATED 2 TIMES, AS MY GAL FRIEND MADE ME SOO HOT., CANT CONTROL AT THAT MOMENT..

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when can i fuck A Women! its been 55 days or can i use viagra to fuck...if there is any viagra can u recommend!

75th days

Today I m celebrating my 75 th days. I ll be getting married in 2 more year. Will my problems be solved with in tthe time. Or should I go to therapy. After 75 days, I did not see any porn for 75 days. Right now I m getting my confidence. I don't want to test it. I started walking for a week. I m 171 cm in height and 82 kg, so I want to reduce my weight. I m 28. When I see busty women, I get existed ( but not in a sexual way ) .

I would be happy

to place a wager that you will indeed be sorted out by the time you marry. And on behalf of your future wife, I thank you for cleaning this up before the wedding.

You get the "Future Husband of the Month" award...or you would if there were one. Wink