This second re-boot is much more emotional and intense than the first, I feel so conflicted on how to proceed with this. I don't know if I should just solely focus on myself, or try and look for a real and meaningful relationship with a woman? When I do online dating, I feel as if I am possibly trying to "play god" and set up a deep and spiritual relationship myself, rather than just letting the universe take over and let the relationship come to me naturally by meeting in a real life social setting. If I were to meet a girl in a real life social setting, where would I go to meet her? I broke up with my girlfriend of about a year a little over a month ago and I feel very lonely for social interaction. I have a hard time making real friendships, but I want them very much and I don't know where to go to make them....
I am really scared, confused, anxious, and lethargic.
Do I just need time to myself?
Are there certain things I can do (or not do) to help myself through this re-boot?
Can anyone give me some advice?