From Context http://www.reuniting.info/node/3792#comment-21276
My response to Lazarus Arisen, about 24 hours after my one stroke orgasm
Sun, 2010-05-02 07:34 — Aphrodites Chela Ok...not a doormat
I'm more like a pair of comfortable shoes. Available when needed. Not too shabby and very supportive. Something reliable to put on for a walk, to run errands and to wear dancing. I like that. It works well for me too. I'm just not very good at sitting on the shelf. Hotspring speaks of memory. I remember all too well when I was new and cherished, cared for and cleaned.
I'm not a pair of shoes. I am a loving, supportive man filled with desire
Thu, 2010-05-06 10:36 — hotspring
Right. So why not break up with her then?
Thu, 2010-05-06 11:54 — Aphrodites Chela 5th day post O and I am thinking divorce.
Let me get some sobriety. I'm thinking 21 days would be good. I'm also thinking no divorce conversation before then.
Day 7 post orgasm
Curious Fellow threatened divorce and it woke his wife up. Also when we were seperated for several months, about 20 years ago, my Izzy moved back in and became real loving for several months after I brought the topic up (no threat, just discussion).
Today I wonder: If I am shoes to her (in my mind) what is she to me. A clothing metaphor isn't really working (silk boxers was close) but I can't discard her as easily as clothes (although I think I could put my hands on a dashiki).
Today, she is my left arm.