Marnia asked, "How ya doin'?"
By day 3 after my May Day O, and up to day 8 I was crazy talking in my head and thinking divorce. Now at day 21 I'm definately calmed down. Day 16 and 17 she came to my bed and day 20 I was in hers. Gawd it helps. [quote=Marnia]Just know...
that things will change by Day 15.[/quote]
I'm a month now On Strike. Completely UnRuniting. I am checking and measuring my reponse. I am only initiating Bonding Behaviors as rewards for her "good" behavior....shamooing. I've given up all hope of trying to change her. Just creating space for whatever. Not bringing up The Relationship (she's asked about cuddling and says she feels unattractive). Being present, available....
I thought that was interesting, because it's one of the qualities you "do" best, AC. Keep on working from your strength. The oracle also said, "desire for a meaningless triumph" would hold you back in easing the "tension in your relationship."[/quote]
PS: been drinking, a light buzz and I'm horny, feeling more sexual than ever in the last month, old behavior, oogling and grabbed her ass once.....think I'll stop and let it wear off. It'll take an hour.