My partner and I started with various bonding behaviors several months ago. We made an attempt at the Exchanges, although we quit at Exchange 14 or so, for various reasons. But we kept doing different bonding stuff more or less daily.
When we first started with the bonding behaviors, I got aroused - even from just lying down and holding hands. It was the kind of pink-fluffy-falling-in-love feeling. Didn't take it further, I just relaxed and enjoyed the moment. But I did look forward to the intercourse exchange.
However, nowadays my lust is completely gone. I still love stroking or massaging my partner on his back / head / chest / feet / wherever, and I love it when he touches me. It's just that that's enough and I have no desire to be sexually connected with him. I haven't been aroused for a few months and now that we have taken up the Exchanges again I dread the intercourse exchange...
Is this normal? What can I do to increase my lust?