Several months ago, I stumbled upon what seemed to be excessive youporn usage in the internet history. At first I thought it was my son, but by the times, I knew it was my husband. He had been looking at porn each morning while I was commuting to work. When he and I first met, we would watch it together occasionally, but this morning usage was keeping us from having sex. If we did have sex, he made no effort with me. He basically spit on his hand to get it a little wet and sticks it in, which is fine occasionally, but nor for the norm. I confronted him and he said that ALL men watch porn with the frequency that he watches it and that I'm being crazy. I tell him I need more intimacy (he translates that to oral) and he tells me I pressure him, so he doesn't want to have sex. He also says he doesn't want to spoil me. Well, since the confrontation, I'm not sure what is different. We have been having sex more and he has made a little more effort, but he will still get on the laptop, watch youporn, then wants to go directly to bed to get off. I am 100% sure that he loves me by other ways he shows me, so I am wondering if I'm just being ridiculous. If I'm not being ridiculous and I've already confronted him to no avail, what else can I do? I love my husband and want to restore the intimacy.