Hello there, I posted in the "Book"-Section about my story:
and I need help with the question above.
I KNOW that it is good to have an open heart, but is it still good for me in this situation to keep my heart open in his direction, while he is giving nothing back? We are far away from each other now, no physical contact, no date fixed, and very little contact at all right now. And I feel so drained and torn and hurt. What good is it to let good energy flow to him when it is just gobbled up?
How could I keep my heart open and NOT be drained in this situation? Any suggestions? Any experiences? I feel a strong urge to close myself now to protect me from further hurt.