I just got to know www.yourbrainonporn.com due to what has happened/ not happened between my girlfriend and me.
I feel like I have been masturbating on porn a lot (since age 14) and that this could be a reason for the images in my head to have changed so I don't get as aroused for "normal" sex. I want to try to not masturbate nor watch porn for 2 months and I hope it will improve.
So far, so good.
I have two questions for you guys, since you're probably more experienced with the problem:
1) Me and my girlfriend will be separated for 2 months starting next friday due to an internship I'm having. I started avoiding PMO a week ago and so now my libido is very low (as I hear is normal for the first couple of weeks). Is there a possibility to get it up for just 1 or 2 nights? I don't want to disappoint her again before we tell each other goodbye.
2) What's the use in avoiding Masturbation? I understand I need to stop watching porn so the images that turn me on change in my head.
But what's so bad about the Masturbation? I just want to know - it'll make it easier to avoid it.
Sorry for any grammatical mistakes - i'm from Germany
Thank you for your help!