Perpetual celibates (also known as involuntary celibates, incels, or love-shys) are those who suffer the worst from today's dating game, and need to be helped.
The Incel Project:-
I think men (such as myself) who suffer from mild to moderate forms of shyness (moreso in group situations of unfamiliarity) or fear of intimacy or lack of non-verbal communication or lack of confidence/decisiveness, etc are often ridiculed in our society.
One of the biggest lies out there (for people looking to find a relationship mate) is the oft-touted advice of "be yourself". Sadly, this doesn't apply to a lot of people - and often you are pressured to change your self in order to shift towards the cultural demands of the majority of the society, and particularly in the preferences of women. While involuntary celibacy does mostly affect men, it also does affect some women too - and that is explored in the blip.tv videos above.