♥ Karezza, wow wow wow, sudden deep contact

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Okay, we've been snuggling and cuddling each day and each night, I would say 30 minutes to an hour. I have been leaving things to her and not being needy or pressuring in any way I am aware of.

So this morning Sparkles and I were snuggling and I felt a very close connection. And after about 30 minutes or so, I said, can I plug in, and she said yes. I just whispered to her a suggestion to give presence to her vagina and it was an amazing experience for me.

After maybe 10 minutes she adjusted herself and I went deeper than I ever remember and I felt suddenly very intimate, almost scarily intimate deep contact I have never experienced before. It felt kind of shocking to me almost. It was wonderful in a way I can't describe but I am in a kind of awe over it, it feels unusually deep and scary wonderful.

It may not have been anything like that for her. Can't say. Don't want to ask. She doesn't like to talk about it which is fine with me, and if I discuss it she interprets it as pressure so I don't.




That's really awesome. Part of why I am so glad to have stumbled onto all this is that I had gotten so jaded. I was really starting to feel like a player. I thought I had felt everything there was to feel. Isn't it amazing to find out that there are more feelings you haven't felt yet? Good ones, no less!

*High five*

Sounds like her outlet gave your plug a good charge-up. It's kind of sad to me that you can't talk about sex openly with her, though. It seems like she kind of is demonizing your manly urges instead of accepting them. Just my opinion.

Will power is 75% will. -Me

It isn't like that, doc

We are all different in how we pursue things. She has me to find this stuff out and she doesn't need to do it herself, in a sense. I can investigate and she trusts me. It's cool that in a relationship each person can have their strengths and complete the other person in a way. We do talk about sex openly but she is more tentative and would prefer to go with the flow.

That certainly sounds like a

That certainly sounds like a great experience.

You may want to tell her that you really enjoyed the experience and that it felt like another level to you. I cannot see how that can come across as pressure for Sparkles. Just say how much you enjoyed it. If you're afraid of pressuring her, keep it to that statement. Else, you can ask her how it was for her without judging her answer.