I am confused because I don't understand something Diana Richardson says about the polarity of men and women, and how this can be used while making love in order to create a deeper conection.
In one place I've found this:
"Reach out to your partner and place your relaxed hands on their positive pole. Channel your love and warmth through your hands into them while allowing the eyes to meet...[This is] very important as it sets the stage for the interplay of polarity once penetration occurs. When the positive poles are alive to each other...an incredible interchange of energy is possible. Lovemaking can become increasingly dynamic, the bodies twisting and turning around and into each other for hours, as if possessed by life itself."
Yet, in another, this:
"The first chakra in man is positive and in woman it is negative. in the heart chakra it is exactly the opposite. through this a circle of energy can be created between man and woman. the breasts of a woman are the doorway to her sexuality. The vagina does not open itself until the energy in the breasts is flowing. Raja: Men often have a strange idea of how to excite a woman, for example by rubbing the clitoris. But if they knew that they simply have to place attention on the breasts, and women becomes automatically open. We must love her through the breasts. Men always think that women function in exactly the same way as we do, and even the woman begin to think this, they must also function like men. But when we are able to value our opposite polarities, then a circle of energy is created."
So, what I understand is that a man should touch a woman in her breast, but what I don't understand is where is a woman supposed to touch a man. This is beacause I understand that man in itself has a positive polarity, but woman a negative polarity. If man is positive and he should touch the woman positive pole, I tend to think that woman, being negative, should touch man negative pole, i.e., his chest. But in the the first quotes it seems to be said that both man and woman should touch the other positive pole, so that woman should touch the man's zone between the anus and the testicles.
If somone could explain me this I would really appreaciate it. Thank you!