Hey guys, sorry to ask this is of you guys, but I really want some relationship advice from people who don't directly know me.
Okay so i've been with my currently girlfriend a few days short of one year now, and we're getting ready to celebrate our anniversary. However, even though we've been together pretty long, this is my first relationship that's gone this far. I really don't know what is normal and what is out of line anymore. I'm starting to lose interest in being with her, and it hurts to even admit that, but something is missing here.
I have what most guys would probably want from a woman: A woman who never calls for more than half an hour a week, doesn't like to be bothered much by me, doesn't like when I show up at her house and "Disturb her life," but who is willing to have sex and the three days tht I do see her. Our sex life is still getting better and more passionate(from my perspective), but I can't help but want more from her. I know her personality is just like this and she's never been a romantic, but it's starting to feel like we're only in a relationship when she's here. Her idea of romantic expression is her buying me food and other stuff which are nice, but it's still so detached.
We're both in school and I know what kind of stresses she is enduring, but life won't get much easier. I would think that one should learn to roll with the punches from life while maintaining healthy relationships. This girl literally gets annoyed when I call now. Very rarely will I call and have a postive response from her.
At the same time, I've had the opportunity to meet and get to know other girls who just seem so much nicer and warmer. However, my current girlfriend USED to be that nice too before she got comfortable I guess. Maybe I should take some time off from relationships? I'm only 22. =)
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.