Further Reading

Submitted by alud on
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Hi,...new here, and excited about my start. Can anyone suggest further reading material on the no orgasm approach. I have read "Peace Bewteen the Sheets",...it was brilliant ! Also would like to ask what is the difference between "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" and "Peace Between the Sheets" ?
Very excited to have found you all,...and the material presented by Marnia
Thanks fro any help you all can offer.

Hi and welcome!

Feel free to start your own blog.

If you sniff around in the "Wisdom" section of the site http://www.reuniting.info/wisdom, you will see various traditions (left-hand margin) that discovered bits and pieces of the same insight about controlled intercourse. You can then follow up on them to learn more.

Cupid's Poisoned Arrow is an "update" of my first book. It's quite different, as I have learned a lot since Peace was written. There's more science (and research to back it up), as well as a clearer explanation of the science. There's a chapter that deals with how sex can become compulsive (thanks to the porn-addicted visitors to the site Smile ), and there are essays between each chapter about different traditions that recommended ways to balance sexuality by passing up orgasm. The new book also explains *why* the Exchanges work, and how vital bonding behaviors are (http://www.reuniting.info/wisdom/bonding_magic). I think that's one of its most important clarifications. I assume you saw Chapter One here: http://www.reuniting.info/cupids_poisoned_arrow_chapter_1