We have been practicing karezza like lovemaking for around three years but we don't abstain from orgasm completely. I usually ejaculate inside her day before starting of her menstrual cycle. We know it's safe time for that. But there has been also few incidents of surprise orgasms and wet dreaming inside her. But we generally stay around in a non-aroused relaxed state far from orgasm ( around 50-60% considering 100% for orgasm). My wife is 36 years old and has been using pills for birth control. We never liked condom. We have two kids and we are not interested for any more baby for at least now. My wife would like to stop taking pills also. Will it be wise to use karezza for birth control?
I think some karezza couple here have been avoiding orgasm completely. Do you use karezza for birth control? If not what do you use ?