(Darryl) [Giving advice to another forum member] When I first started to practice being non-orgasmic, my wife admitted that she had sometimes used sex as a way to get rid of me. I seems my attention towards her would dissipate after orgasming. When I stopped orgasming this approach didn't fly. I was always desiring her, and she had no "eject" button to push. But it wasn't long before she was much preferring the new me.
However we, too, went through an adjustment period like you are [where he wanted to cuddle and have sex more than she did]. See, I observe that us men can be a bit needy in the sexual department, and our partners don't really enjoy dealing with this part of the male psyche. At the beginning when a man shifts to non-orgasmic behavior, it can look to the woman like this needy behavior is only getting worse. Yikes!
What the woman doesn't realize is that refraining from orgasm helps the man to develop a capacity to hold REAL space for the woman. Adoration, without the neediness, is exactly what women really want in their men. At least this is so from my observation. Don't worry, it won't be long before she can't get enough of you either. In the meantime, give her all the space she needs to adjust to the new you.